What I'm about reveal could make you feel very
uncomfortable.
While I don't want to offend you in any way, I don't want to
hide important clues of how to know if your partner is
cheating either.
If you find what I'm saying to you offensive, you can ignore
this
But I have no intention of "sugar coating" what I say since
you are spending YOUR time to read this, I want you to know
this secret
Ok, what I'll share with you could potentially hold a big
clue to your partner's infidelity - and it's got to do with
your current sex life with your spouse.
And "no", I'm not going to start asking you about explicit
intimate stuff - however you do need to "think" about it
while reading this.
The first thing to consider is the lack of one! Or rather I
should say a "sudden" lack of one. If you're experiencing a
sudden drop in sex with your partner, it could be that
they're getting "satisfied" elsewhere.
However a drop in your sex life could be caused by other
more complicated factors too but it's not usually as
abrupt.
Here's what should alert your suspicion trigger more
..if your partner suddenly demonstrates an eagerness and
desire to try different "positions" or "moves" that neither
of you have shown before, it could well be because they want
to impress their other partner and are using you to master
them!
Horrible? Yes...I know...
..humiliating? You bet!
...can this really be true?? Unfortunately, I know first hand yes it is true
I would recommend you learn about other, sometimes, subtle
changes in your sex life with your partner, that could be
clear signs of cheating click here
Sunday, May 27, 2007
Monday, May 21, 2007
something clever
Ever heard of "mis-direction"?
It's used by all great magicians.
In a nutsell, it's simply a way to "throw off" focus from
one thought to another without you realizing.
So how can YOU use misdirection, to "wrong foot" your
partner?
Picture this...
Say your hsband or wife told you they would be going for some drinks
with friends yesterday evening, but you get the feeling they
were spending time with "someone" else...
...you can ask your spouse very "CASUALLY" how the evening
was with their friends, quickly followed by a question about
something mundane.
What this does is "shift" your partners concentration, and
stops him from coming up with some rubbish alibi and they go
for the instinctive first response of.."it was ok" or
something to that effect.
The reason they probably won't bother with a "lie" is this:
BECAUSE of the casual way you asked the question and then
went on to asking other mundane questions, sub-consciously
they "understood" you are not really interested in the
answer anyway...
...so it's not worth them creating an alibi.
Instead an instinctive quick answer is given..and you both
move on.
Onwards..
You then find a way to confirm the story. Ask a "friend" who
was allegedly there with your partner, how their evening
was.
Again, do so casually. Don't make it sound like the
inquisition!
In all probablities, they will inadvertently tell you the
truth, that they "haven't seen your spouse for a while"-
and why wouldn't they as they have no idea you've been told
otherwise.
Again, you keep that as proof, for when you do confront your
partner.
if you want a "clear blueprint" to shortcut
your way to finding the truth about your partner by inciting
reactions rather than confontration, check the resource
below.
click here
It's used by all great magicians.
In a nutsell, it's simply a way to "throw off" focus from
one thought to another without you realizing.
So how can YOU use misdirection, to "wrong foot" your
partner?
Picture this...
Say your hsband or wife told you they would be going for some drinks
with friends yesterday evening, but you get the feeling they
were spending time with "someone" else...
...you can ask your spouse very "CASUALLY" how the evening
was with their friends, quickly followed by a question about
something mundane.
What this does is "shift" your partners concentration, and
stops him from coming up with some rubbish alibi and they go
for the instinctive first response of.."it was ok" or
something to that effect.
The reason they probably won't bother with a "lie" is this:
BECAUSE of the casual way you asked the question and then
went on to asking other mundane questions, sub-consciously
they "understood" you are not really interested in the
answer anyway...
...so it's not worth them creating an alibi.
Instead an instinctive quick answer is given..and you both
move on.
Onwards..
You then find a way to confirm the story. Ask a "friend" who
was allegedly there with your partner, how their evening
was.
Again, do so casually. Don't make it sound like the
inquisition!
In all probablities, they will inadvertently tell you the
truth, that they "haven't seen your spouse for a while"-
and why wouldn't they as they have no idea you've been told
otherwise.
Again, you keep that as proof, for when you do confront your
partner.
if you want a "clear blueprint" to shortcut
your way to finding the truth about your partner by inciting
reactions rather than confontration, check the resource
below.
click here
Thursday, May 17, 2007
Don't make this mistake
If you're spending your days with your feelings getting
stronger about your partner cheating on you like I was DON'T make
this mistake!
I'm talking about confronting your partner.
Use confontration and start asking many direct questions too
early, and you may never know the truth.
You have to gather all the evidence first before you
confront them.
Why is this important?
Because, if you end up questioning them without any hard
proof, for starters there is the possibility that you maybe
wrong!
Unlikely, but possible.
But the bigger reason is because it usually gives your
partner the excuse to wiggle out by using "attack as the
best form of defense"
in other words, they will say you're "imagining things",
"here I am working hard and all you're doing is slinging
unfair accusations at me" etc.
You could be made to feel guilty - accuse you of giving them
a hard time.
And here's the worst result of your confronting too early
when you get the slightest suspicion:
You have just "alerted" your spouse!
By raising suspicion yourself, you just alerted them to
cover their tracks and hide their affair better than they
have been!
I'm sure that is the opposite of what you want.
This is exactly what happened Me
at the slightest hint that I had of my wife having an having an affair, I went beserk and starting questioning her
my reaction only "narrowed" my ways of finding out the
truth, and from then on I was more suspicious than ever and it is consuming
my life.
There's no two ways about it - being cheated on and not
knowing with certainty for months had taken it's toll on me
and I ended up having a "breakdown" from the sheer emotion
pressure.
I hope for your sake you don't let the same
happen to you.
Remembering that time is truly horrid for me, brings back
some very painful memories...
Sorry, I digress.
The lesson here is a simple one:
"Lull" your partner into a false sense of security with
their possible cheating, and quickly gather all the evidence
FIRST before you confront them.
You can find how and what evidence to gather, without
raising any suspicions of your sleuthing
click here
Stay tuned for some more of my tips talk to you later
stronger about your partner cheating on you like I was DON'T make
this mistake!
I'm talking about confronting your partner.
Use confontration and start asking many direct questions too
early, and you may never know the truth.
You have to gather all the evidence first before you
confront them.
Why is this important?
Because, if you end up questioning them without any hard
proof, for starters there is the possibility that you maybe
wrong!
Unlikely, but possible.
But the bigger reason is because it usually gives your
partner the excuse to wiggle out by using "attack as the
best form of defense"
in other words, they will say you're "imagining things",
"here I am working hard and all you're doing is slinging
unfair accusations at me" etc.
You could be made to feel guilty - accuse you of giving them
a hard time.
And here's the worst result of your confronting too early
when you get the slightest suspicion:
You have just "alerted" your spouse!
By raising suspicion yourself, you just alerted them to
cover their tracks and hide their affair better than they
have been!
I'm sure that is the opposite of what you want.
This is exactly what happened Me
at the slightest hint that I had of my wife having an having an affair, I went beserk and starting questioning her
my reaction only "narrowed" my ways of finding out the
truth, and from then on I was more suspicious than ever and it is consuming
my life.
There's no two ways about it - being cheated on and not
knowing with certainty for months had taken it's toll on me
and I ended up having a "breakdown" from the sheer emotion
pressure.
I hope for your sake you don't let the same
happen to you.
Remembering that time is truly horrid for me, brings back
some very painful memories...
Sorry, I digress.
The lesson here is a simple one:
"Lull" your partner into a false sense of security with
their possible cheating, and quickly gather all the evidence
FIRST before you confront them.
You can find how and what evidence to gather, without
raising any suspicions of your sleuthing
click here
Stay tuned for some more of my tips talk to you later
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Don't live in the dark
Our marriage had been pretty rocky for over 6 years. We got along for about 3 weeks out of every month. There was always that one month that we would fight and argue. My wife was never happy, she claimed she had alot of anger built up towards me. I couldn't figure out why, I always told her I loved her, I hugged her often, and we would go out all the time. Despite all of this she was always never fully happy. She felt as if I was not giving her enough attention. I didn't know what more I could do. I had to have a life of my own as well.
I have always been very focused on my job and trying to increase my position. I thought this was a trait that she admired. She often told me that she did indeed admire this about me. She supported me during everything, yet she always felt like I put her second. I was at my wits end trying to convince her otherwise.
How could I do the things I needed to do to fulfill my life, yet put her first in every aspect of my life? I could not figure this out and it cost me, it cost me big time.
I never would've imagined that my wife would've cheated on me. She was just not that type of woman. Her affair lasted several months. At first I felt something was different and I kind of suspected something was up, but I never really beleived that it was true.
I searched the internet looking for some type of support group, and ended up purchasing a book that had tons of ways to know if my wife was cheating. I was so intrigued I read the book about three times. What I learned was textbook to what she was doing. My heart sunk. I had not confronted her yet about it though. I also continued to look for more products that could help me, as if the book was not enough. It was almost like I was obsessed.
I stumbled upon a Spy program that could spy on her computer history. I didn't know things like that even existed. The program recorded everything she typed, every email she sent, the websites she went too, and her chat logs. This was the silver bullet I needed.
I confronted her with all the info, and she was devastated. She begged and pleaded not to break up. It was too late, What I read in her emails and chat logs was more than I could handle. I am now remarried and am very happy.
My exwife is not with the man she cheated with, She is actually single and regretful of her mistake. I recommend everyone do their research and find out what is going on in their relationship. Good luck to ya.
I have always been very focused on my job and trying to increase my position. I thought this was a trait that she admired. She often told me that she did indeed admire this about me. She supported me during everything, yet she always felt like I put her second. I was at my wits end trying to convince her otherwise.
How could I do the things I needed to do to fulfill my life, yet put her first in every aspect of my life? I could not figure this out and it cost me, it cost me big time.
I never would've imagined that my wife would've cheated on me. She was just not that type of woman. Her affair lasted several months. At first I felt something was different and I kind of suspected something was up, but I never really beleived that it was true.
I searched the internet looking for some type of support group, and ended up purchasing a book that had tons of ways to know if my wife was cheating. I was so intrigued I read the book about three times. What I learned was textbook to what she was doing. My heart sunk. I had not confronted her yet about it though. I also continued to look for more products that could help me, as if the book was not enough. It was almost like I was obsessed.
I stumbled upon a Spy program that could spy on her computer history. I didn't know things like that even existed. The program recorded everything she typed, every email she sent, the websites she went too, and her chat logs. This was the silver bullet I needed.
I confronted her with all the info, and she was devastated. She begged and pleaded not to break up. It was too late, What I read in her emails and chat logs was more than I could handle. I am now remarried and am very happy.
My exwife is not with the man she cheated with, She is actually single and regretful of her mistake. I recommend everyone do their research and find out what is going on in their relationship. Good luck to ya.
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